Sometimes thing line up for you in life then poof it is gone and then you find your true reason for being and you realize that even though your journey had too many twists and turns if you have had some foundation of faith in at least some spiritual way and I am of the belief that everyone must make the spiritual connection on their own level. That includes the level at which after death there is nothing. Finding your own soul can help. I believe anyway, strangely I do believe that those that truly believe there will be no afterparty then they may in fact be an open place and may just fade away all of their life is in the record and the memories of their action will still exist in the memories of those that knew them. We are going through a period in which too much has become an electronic transaction or otherwise preoccupying us. I have such great respect for those that have adjusted their life to be geared toward self sufficiency. Ultimately what life throws at you especially in your later years gives you a better feel for the synchronicity that does occur on a regular basis you must just learn to recognize that you in fact go in and out of sync with everyone around you and you must learn to recognize when it occurs so that you can adjust. If you are in a relationship it is very important{{:>)
